Friday, November 19, 2010

How do I deal with my alcoholic parents?

well my parents are alcoholics but they aren't realising it they just say they are having a drink once in a while but its every night and its scary coz they call me really abusive names but I cant tell anyone coz they give me stuff when they are sober to cover up the drinking and i really need help coz i think im gonna flip out and scream at them and runaway i need help please!How do I deal with my alcoholic parents?
Go to Alanon. You'll find other people in the same situation. You can also talk to a teacher or a counselor at school and get some advice.



Can you go away to summer camp? Is there a relative who would let you stay? Can you go on frequent sleepovers with other kids? If you're old enough, is there a program at a college where you could start early?



You could also try videotaping them with your cell phone and showing it to them while they're sober and telling them you wish they'd stop drinking. You can also refuse the stuff they give you and say, ';I'd rather have you sober than anything you can give me.'; Or you can sell the stuff they give you and put the money into a bank account and use it to get your own place as soon as you turn 18.



I'm sorry this is happening to you.How do I deal with my alcoholic parents?
i grew up with an alcoholic dad too. the only way out is to

deal with it, accept the fact that you re part of a dysfunctional

family and adapt accordingly. dont runaway unless you want to

end up a homeless dope smoking whore.



i dont how old you are but concentrate on your school, and improving

yourself. learn from it, dont try to change it.
Honestly, this seems like a massive issue. I don't really think complete strangers are the ones you should be going to for such hardcore issues such as both of your parents being out of control alcoholics! You should confront them when they are sober, it's so important that they realize the horrors you have to deal with on a day-to-day basis. When they see how much you are suffering they may want to change their actions. If you are really worried they cannot stop with their drinking problems you should just check them into a rehabilitation centre, help them, to help themselves.
How old are you? You should talk to a friend or teacher or friends parent. That is what I did.
Why can't you tell anyone,just because they give you stuff,does'nt make you speechless surely!!Think you enjoy holding your parents to ransom,so you can get what ever you want!!Think if you really wanted help,you would have tried,A/A for advice by now!!IF YOU dont have other family,that you can talk to,maybe try Church group thats local or school counsellor,that can help you with whats bothering you!!Running away a bad idea,really bad idea!!Stay well %26amp;Stay safe please!!
contact alanon
Take your college degree that shows you are capable of diagnosing their disorder, and wave it in the face as you tell them what you think.



Otherwise run. Don't just threaten them, actually run.



That will really punish them, totally.



Good Luck Kid
go to another (sober) family member. Grandparents, uncles, etc...



If you don't have any other living relatives, then try some of your parent's friends (who aren't drunks) or neighbors



As a last result, then try teachers, priests, alcohol groups, family services, or the police- but be prepared for them to stick you in a foster home if you do that.
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