Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How do I deal with an alcoholic abusive husband?

Is it normal to be depressed if you're husband is an alcoholic?

What can I do?How do I deal with an alcoholic abusive husband?
Leave him. At some point maybe you will decide you deserve better---then you will act on those decisions.How do I deal with an alcoholic abusive husband?
Don't worry, he's dealing with you.
I would leave him if I were you. I wouldnt put up w/that. You deserve way better.
Try Alanon. You can't fix him, but you can fix you. The link below will help you find Alanon meetings in your area.
get a job at walmart and leave his bitc* ***!
Slip some rat poison into his beer and your problems will go away in about 3 hours lolz
You can't. You need to let him care for himself while you start to care for yourself. Learn as much as you can about your childhood %26amp; find out the reasons why you have made some poor choices in men. I suspect you are a ';rescuer';, like so many of us women are who choose %26amp; care for these abusive men. If you choose to stay around a man like this, you will need to have a support group %26amp; a lot of inner strength to change the way your lives are intertwined %26amp; running on a dysfunctional level.

Yes, I think it's normal to be depressed when you become so confused about how to keep peace in your home with a mate who is seemingly NEVER satisfied.

The more he drinks, the less brain matter he has to work with.

If you can find a local AA, they have meetings for family members of alcoholics that can help you to feel better about yourself %26amp; learn new ways of dealing with a alcoholic impaired individual.

Sometimes you have to remove yourself if the abuse escalates into physical violence.

This is when you need the help of law enforcement %26amp; mental health professionals to keep you %26amp; your children safe (if you have any).

I urge you to contact your local battered women's shelter or domestic violence hotline for advice %26amp; local groups that can assist you.

Also contact the AA %26amp; ACA to learn about this disease we call alcoholism.

It's hard to watch someone you love die a slow death from alcohol abuse. Some of us stay while others find the strength to leave %26amp; start our lives over without the abusive mate who while forever be in our hearts %26amp; in our heads.

~Learn how to let go of the sinking ship before it pulls you under %26amp; then swim to the shores of happiness again~
Well if he was an alcoholic BEFORE you got married, I say you learn to duck because it is rude of you to try to change who he is just because you are married. If he gives you 5 across the eyes every once in a while, you have to ask yourself what you are doing wrong as well. There are 2 sides to every story.

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